Thursday, August 16, 2012

My Beauties

Thursday, August 2, 2012

Proverbs 11:2 When pride cometh, then cometh shame:

Why is sex such a stumbling block for men? Is it the sex, or the Pride that they think they can get away with it.

I was sad when I heard the news. Even though it didn't surprise me, I was still sad. I hurt for the people and the members of this church. I know the anguish, the betrayal they feel.
 The news I am referring too FBCH.
I understand, because I had a Pastor when I was a teenager that was morally corrupt. This man destroyed my church, damaged my life. Ironically, my former Pastor graduated from this same college, about the same time Jack Schaap did. They must have known each other.

Does this surprise me? No. Jack Schaap was a heretic the was obsessed with sex. Here is some proof
Schaap Preaching on July 8,2012

Marriage: The Divine Intimacy.

Any Pastor obsessed with sex and constantly preaching it, will have problems. How do I know this? Well the Bible warns about it
1 Corinthians 10:12 Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall.
Proverbs 23:7 For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he:
For a pastor to preach a sermon, he must prepare one. When he is constantly obsessing about sex in their sermons, then he is constantly thinking of it. Now I am not saying they should not preach on sin, I am saying if it is one particular sin that they are concentrating on, then it must be a struggle he is having with in. 
God tells us in Philippians 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. He isn't saying it to sound pretty. It's there as a command, to protect us.


I have seen four men of God fall in this same manner. In each case, his family was hurt beyond reason. I have seen two churches collapse due to this. Lives changed for ever, potential servants of God reluctant to darken a church door now.


It personally about destroyed my life. So how do we over come. How does FBCH overcome this?
In Bible college a verse that stuck very close to me was Ps.118:8 It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man. 
Right now your trust has been obliterated. It may be very hard to trust in any man. May I suggest you memorize verses on trust, loyalty, faithfulness, and apply it to your life. Don't build up man because he is a pastor. Build up God,  and Him alone. He is the one that will not let you down.
Attend a good Bible believing church. Be active in it. Satan will make you doubt, He is good at that, so keep God's word close to your heart and stay in it constantly. Seek wise council, no matter how hard it is. I know that is hard because who do you trust? 
Hold fast and surround yourself with Christians that have strived to continue the race. Build a relationship with them.
The first thing I had to do when I wanted to get right and overcome this tragedy was get myself in a good church and surround myself with people that loved God. Who did I KNOW was real and stood in their faith? I moved 3 hours away to find that place. It's been almost 9 years, and my faith and trust in God has grown dramatically.
Don't quit. No matter how hard it will get, always stay serving God. In your current church, or another you feel safe in.
Remember people are praying for you. God knew this was going to happen. He knew you would be experiencing this pain. He will guide you through this.
James 1:2 My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations;
James 1:12 Blessed is the man that endureth temptation: for when he is tried, he shall receive the crown of life, which the Lord hath promised to them that love him.
1 Corinthians 10:13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.
Job 23:10 But he knoweth the way that I take: when he hath tried me, I shall come forth as gold.
Exodus 14:14 The LORD shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace.


You can and will survive.
Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.

Monday, June 18, 2012

And there is not a God........

Lance Armstrong is a self proclaimed atheist. I am wondering if he wishes there was a God now.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/sports/othersports/lance-armstrong-faces-fresh-doping-charges-from-usada/2012/06/13/gJQAefnPaV_story.html


Lance Armstrong faces fresh doping charges from USADA


The U.S. Anti-Doping Agency brought formal doping charges against former cyclist Lance Armstrong in an action that could cost him his seven Tour de France titles, according to a letter sent to Armstrong and several others.
As a result of the charges, Armstrong has been immediately barred from competition in Ironman triathlons, a discipline he took up after his retirement from cycling in 2011.
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The U.S. Anti-Doping Agency is bringing doping charges against seven-time Tour de France winner Lance Armstrong, threatening to strip his victories in those storied cycling races.
The U.S. Anti-Doping Agency is bringing doping charges against seven-time Tour de France winner Lance Armstrong, threatening to strip his victories in those storied cycling races.

USADA charging letter to Lance Armstrong and others

On June 12, 2012, the U.S. Anti-Doping Agency notified Lance Armstrong and five others of alleged anti-doping rules violations.

In the 15-page charging letter obtained by The Washington Post, USADA outlined new allegations against Armstrong, saying it collected blood samples from him in 2009 and 2010 that were “fully consistent with blood ma nipu la tion including EPO use and/or blood transfusions.”
The charges represent the latest chapter in a long-running saga over whether Armstrong used banned substances during a cycling career that, along with his successful battle against testicular cancer, made him a national hero. Though for years Armstrong has successfully fended off challenges to his legacy, the action by USADA this week represents perhaps the most serious threat because of the anti-doping agency’s unique position of authority in the athletic drug-testing world.
The 12-year-old agency, which is funded jointly by the U.S. Olympic Committee and the federal government, almost never loses cases, though few athletes have the financial means or iconic status of Armstrong.
Armstrong has never tested positive for drugs, and on Wednesday he vehemently denied the USADA charges.
“I have never doped, and, unlike many of my accusers, I have competed as an endurance athlete for 25 years with no spike in performance, passed more than 500 drug tests and never failed one,” Armstrong said in a statement released by his publicist. “That USADA ignores this fundamental distinction and charges me instead of the admitted dopers says far more about USADA, its lack of fairness and this vendetta than it does about my guilt or innocence. Any fair consideration of these allegations has and will continue to vindicate me.”

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Readings

This summer I had the girls write down the goals for the summer. Sami my 12 year old put down to read 1 spiritual book a week. This week she is reading "Dressing for the Lord" by David Cloud. Today, a bus kid came by our house wanting to play and visit with Samantha.
I allow this because I  believe we should be a light of the world, however, it is always in a control setting. Michelle asked Sami "Why she always wore dresses" Wow! what conversation for pre teens. Sami beamed up explained what she knew and had been taught about dressing for the Lord, and modesty. This book is a great tool for modest Christian women trying to explain why we dress a certain way.

This has so encouraged her to finish reading this book.

Growing up

Wow it just seemed like yesterday they were babies. But they are not. Rachel will be a senior this year. I am so proud of her, she has really learned responsibility in the last few years. She works on a bus route, she helps in 3-4 year old junior church. She will be working in 3,4,5 year olds in camp this summer if she doesn't get a real job. she various other tidbits in the ministry she will be doing, It's great! As I explain to Rachel that volunteering and having a servants heart can and will lead to many blessing. God can use a tender heart, He won't use a selfish one.
Rachel was upset with her ISAT test, the one the school does to see their rankings with like schools and national average. She was upset because she pretty much scored average in every subject and area, all but one. Organization that was above average. To me as a parent that is priority. I know often brainiacts  struggle because they can't organize their time,life, simple tasks. This is an area she has agrip on for many years and you can tell it is vastly improving.
 I have no idea what god want for her life, she doesn't either. Her goals is to marry a good Christian man and to prepare herself to help him in His service for Christ, rather it be in a lay position or ministry.

Samantha well she has joined the dreadful Fairhaven youth group. I say that in tongue in cheek. She is following in her sisters footsteps. We talk with Sami and encourage her to have an open heart, to listen to guidance and instruction. To do right!! Not to hang around weak members, but to encourage them. I am looking forward to this because I know what is preached and taught to the kids, I know the godly nuturing, the hours of prayer and sweat poured into their growth. I am sad this will Be Pastor Damron's last year with the teens. He has a good understanding of them and what makes them tick and how to guide them. The biggest is parents must lesson and follow the direction if they want to see a good outcome.
Sometimes we don't understand. I know I was like that with Rachel at first. It wasn't blind faith I trusted in. Just faith alone. If you don't trust your leaders, you're not going to succeed.


Saturday, February 18, 2012

I am blessed

On the eve of my 18th anniversary, I am so thankful for a loving, Christian husband. How wonderful it is to know your spouse, will join in heaven. It is also an ease to have a mate that connects with you spiritually on Earth.
Our marriage my not be the greatest. It is strong. We thank our Father, our Bible, our Church (Fairhaven Independent Baptist Church), our Pastor (Dr. Roger Voegtlin and staff).
Marriage isnt about compromise. It's about doing what is right. It's about giving yourself, without no thought of self. It's work plain and simple. Your gonna get what you put into it. It's about putting God first and His Word above any other priority.
I am so thankful God showed this to me anf through me before it became to late in ourlives.
I am blessed I have Brad to lead the way, after 18 years.
Marriage is a life sentence, it can be a happy life or miserable one, its what you make it to be.


Yours truly, Cathy