Attitude

Meet Miss lil' tude. Have you ever heard the phrase she is her mother's daughter. Well Sami is.

Sami was telling me about a situation in school actually a few. The first happened today. Sami was holding a door for a group of much younger girls, as they passed by, boys in the same class also went through the door.
Samantha approached the boys and asked them if she was a boy or a girl? She stated they had a dumbfounded look and answered "girl". She immediately scolded them and informed them that they are suppose to hold doors for girls and that even means her.

As mom I am proud of my daughter for being independent and standing up for herself, but also shocked that she is so forward. Wow that mirror hurts.

Sometimes when we dig for treasure we get dirt, other times a diamond pops out, or that shiny prize of gold. But the key is to continue digging.

They other problem she has been there are a few macho boys in her class that diddles, and the girls, well they are hungry. As a mother of two girls, food don't last long in my house. Girls will eat and hurt anyone that stands in the way of their food. It is normal.
The boys seem to be slow according to Sami when it comes to lunch. Therefore the girls march to the lunchroom and even open the doors for themselves. That isn't the problem. Girls ought to be able to open a door, otherwise they could be stuck out in the rain.

The problem is that the boys get mad because the girls hold the door for themselves. When I am saying mad I am saying pushing the girl holding the girl out of the way, flipping their head away and evil eye stare, as Sami would say.
The thing is, these boys don't get that nothing is going to stand in the way of girls and food.




All silliness aside, when did we stop teaching our boys to be gentlemen and our girls to be ladies. Ouch, I think I broke my own toe on that one.
I am wondering if in IFB Christianity it isn't the pant wearing ladies or the long hair men that is going to crumple our gender distinction. I predict it will be the lack of teaching about gender roles. Things as opening doors, or how a lady should walk. We are going to destroy our own foundation by ignoring the building blocks. That is my prediction.

Party Time

I am hosting a celebrating home party. I have done anything like this. I am rather freaked out about it. I am not creative, and my house isn't immaculate and perfect, it is comfy and homey. Then planning snacks and appetizers oh my. Just not my ball park. I am not a creative being. I have zero creativity in my body. Which I laugh because if you read my zodiac, which i don't read anymore, nor believe and practice. It states that Gemini's are creative people. I scoff at the weirdo's that come up with it.

Well I did do one thing creative, or at least I think it is. I made some cute invites. Here they are.

Calvary's Promise

This is a poem My 11 year old Samantha wrote, it really touched me and thought I would share with you.
Calvary's Tree
At calvary's tree I stood
Not aware of the man that was there.
But His look made me feel
That I nailed Him up there.
That my sin nailed Him up there.

As I started to cry,
He asked why?
and with a cry I replied,
"It was I who nailed you up on the tree."

And He said "Come unto me,
And I will set thy spirit free.
I'll carry thy burden,
Thru shallow and deep.
I'll be by thy side
thru easy and hard.
I promise, I'll never forsake thee."

Samantha McNabb

Who is king over your domain?

This is my fat cat Gizmo. He truly believes he is the king of his domain. He jumped 5 feet and pushed over my flowers to rule. This work was really unnecessary, for you see he can lay anywhere, and rarely be disturbed. So what all the work then?
This so reminds me of our sin nature. The payment was made, all we need to do is trust in Jesus. The problem is, we want to do it ourself, find our own way . Rule our own domain. We forget about how we screwed things up yo begin with. We trusted in our way, not His. See we are given a freewill, God isn't going yo force us yo lie quietly on the sofa. We can choose to jump the great gulf for a better view, of course at the risk of not making it. Just because we succeed it the crossing, doesn't promise we will be happy. After all we have to return sooner or later. The jump back isn't the easiest. There are often bumps, bruises, and broken bones along the way.
So the question remains, "who will be king of your domain".

Thankfulness

1 Timothy 6:6 But godliness with contentment is great gain.

7 For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out.

8 And having food and raiment let us be therewith content. Thanksgiving is this week. There re so many wants and needs in this world. But wants and needs are often really not contentment. We get contentment from God, not from goods. Some of us think we need a brand new construction home, what we should be content with is basic shelter. Food is great, but it doesn't have to be a medium rare prime rib, with baked potato, salad, and steamed vegetables. Truly, a PB&J sandwich is suffice. The one thing we all need is Christ. Many will not take Him. Instead they will cleave to Buddha, Mohammad, and even worse Self. The later three may seem beneficial, but it is only the first that will give contentment. For you see, it is nothing we or mortal man and idols can do, the can offer true thankfulness. It is Christ alone and His glory He shed for us. The reason we celebrate thanksgiving isn't to gorge ourselves in Turkey and dressing, green bean casserole, mashed potatoes, apple pie, and pecan pie. the reason we celebrate Thanksgiving is to feast in the prosperity of how God supplied our predecessor's needs. It started off at Plymouth, but it is still celebrated today. Oh we may not have to bare a harsh winter ahead or grueling harvest. we don't worry too much about sickness, or never seeing or hearing from family again. We have the best amenities heat, bountiful refrigerator, antibiotics and skype. We don't NEED God...... or do we? God, my Heavenly Father gives us air to breathe. He gives us the health to work. The coal to heat us, the trees to shelter us. You see He even gave His Son to save us. John 3:

16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.

18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. I am most thankful for my Salvation this holiday season. For without God, my Father, and His love for me, I couldn't be content with just mere food or raiment, shelter and health.

The problem with forums, blogs and even facebook

Preacher taught tonight on "How to win a soul to Christ." It was a good review. It is a review that would be slammed in mainstream Christianity and even gasp, cough, smirking argued by IFB on the usually IFB, FFF type forums. Definitely scoffed at by the good old tulip crowd, which makes me mad, because I love Tulips, they are my favorite flower, just as mad as the Homosexuals using the rainbow as their symbol.

The same crowd the condemns Biblical soulwinning, and I am not talking about the easy believism 123 your saved agenda, but true Biblical soulwinning, and discipleship, also condemns Christmas and even Halloween. But they are willing to defend drinking, rock music, immodesty, touching and kissing before marriage and well pretty much anything that feeds the flesh.

A good christian can go and seek a forum to find godly fellowship in and leave, confused because of twists that are made from the Bible. I admit it is happen to me. That is why my visit to certain forums and even blogs are so infrequent. I know what they will spill and I know how they will ridicule. I know how hard it is not doubt God and His Word and everything you ever been taught, what you have seen with your own eyes.

True friends are not found in blogs, forums and facebook. True friends are found in God's house. I have been at my church for over 7 years, and tonight I think I have finally realized that. In that past 10 years. I  have sought out friendships online. Yes there are some sweet acquaintances I have made. But they never helped me grow. It is my friends at church, that have truly encouraged me. Mrs. Voegtlin and swimming, Mrs. Labate, Mrs. Hughes. The old ladies in my prayer group (I call them the old ladies, many are 20 years my senior or close to it) I so love them. It is my bestest friend Mrs. Hammond that has taught me so much. These are just a few, their are many, many more. I attend such a large church it is so hard to name all.

I listened to so many people on forums it took the joy of actually living out. We didn't do Santa, that was really okay since Sami freaked out by him. Halloween for a few years was out, I love seeing the girls dress up and decorating for the fall.

Soulwinning, I felt guilty by it, then embarrssed, then shame. Wow what blessing I missed from introducing someone to Christ. There are so many things I missed out on because of internet "Christian" forums.
I say this because it is a burden I have felt for a while.
God Bless all

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